Single father needs help soon to be ex is doing her best to ruin me

Right now I am in the process of getting divorced from my wife, the problem is that she had been cheating on me and running up bills for the last 8 months. Now I did get majority custody of our 1 yr old son, but just trying to keep up with all the bill is driving me nuts. We had a vw restoration business going, and as soon as she decided to leave, she cut off the website and phone line to it. I restarted the business under a different name and number again this January, but now havent been able to get into the shop because she reported me to the California BAR and they want 200 bucks for a permit. On top of that when she left she cleaned out the bank accounts for the cool sum of 12,000. and left me with .99 cents in the account exactly. She has told me that she is going to do her best to ruin me and right now she is achieving her goal. I cant get a loan due to the bills she ran up, so this is sort of my last hurrah. I was on the internet looking to see what kind of miracle I could find and saw this link. So for anybody that has ever been through what Im going through right now, you know how it is when you are so desparate that your willing to do just about anything. I have tried to reason with my ex and explain to her that the better I do in life the better it is for our son, but she doesnt care, already moved in with her new guy and is having the time of her life. Well any questions I will answer and will appreciate any kind of help anybody can give me. Thanks and God Bless You.

Daniel